1. Sometimes when you ask to much questions you may not like what you hear. Make a decision, either you ask the questions and learn to deal with what you hear or don’t ask at all. Reason being, if you have a goal in mind, asking questions can directly affect your ability to accomplish your goal if you hear answers you don’t like.
2. Don’t ever have expectations for/in people. If you put your faith or expectations in someone you essentially are setting yourself up for disappointment. This applies for anything from work, friendships and especially relationships. While some may argue that this is not always true, its true MOST of the time. For example, you put your faith in your best friend to always be there for you but when the time comes and they are not there. Or perhaps you put expectations in a woman and the relationship hoping to have something special but one day for no reason she dumps or changes her feelings towards you without reason. You will save yourself a lot of disappointment if you had low or NO expectations to begin with.
3. Getting older is not always a bad thing. While I wish I can still say I am in my early or mid twenties (because it sounds so nice and young) getting older definitely has its perks. For one, I am more at peace with myself no longer trying to prove something all the time. Emotionally, I am happier more confident and learn how to manage my feelings better. I appreciate and love myself and with that I am a naturally a happier person. Getting older means more wisdom and experience and you finally reach an age where you know yourself and develop yourself as a the “real you.”
4. Every man should work out. No exceptions. Working out does magic for your body, looks, health, confidence, your overall happiness and how you feel and value yourself. Working out is a form of stress management. Whether it was a bad day or you’re feeling a burning tension inside, working out releases that tension physically through the form of lifting weights, cardio, situps, etc. You will walk out feeling great after. Trust me on this one.
5. Read one hour on day or at least a few hours a week. Reading improves your knowledge, intelligence and can helps with self improvement. I currently read as much as I can, anything from a travel adventure/sex blog, how to sex book, men’s fitness and health mags, to business articles. It expands your horizons, educates you, offers tips on life, business, dating and sex, and gives you upbeat topics to talk about in conversations.
6. Ever had that feeling where you feel like your efforts and kind deeds go unnoticed or unappreciated and your being taken for granted? Its not a good feeling. With that being said, appreciate people when they do things for you. Sometimes a warm smile and a kind show of appreciation can make a whole lot of difference.
7. Date inter-racially. I am fed up with Asian men only desiring and pursuing Asian women further putting these slant eye cunts on a pedestal. Asian American or Asian women for the most part believe they are cut from a better slice of the pie, looking down on Asian men while harboring self prejudice in themselves and their race. There are plenty of non Asian women out there that are open minded and sweet with a lot to offer. Stop believing the stereotype that no White women want Asian men. That’s just something that is embedded in our culture to oppress Asian men. Get your shit together and be a man with something to offer. Starting today, hit on at least one Non Asian woman a week, then as you get more comfortable, raise the number to 2 or 3 or more a week. Eventually one Non Asian woman would bite if you use decent game and take care of your appearance.
8. It’s a fact that if you have sex with a woman and want to continue seeing her consistently, you must call/text her the next day so she would know your into her for more than just sex. However, one thing I learned from gaming is even if you don’t penetrate her but have success in the form of anything physical, you still should call or text her the next day. For instance, if you have a heavy make out session, or squeeze her tits and grab her ass multiple times, or go as far as finger her or get her naked and fool around, oral, anything short of penetration then you should call her. If you don’t, you run a risk of not getting a second date or seeing her again, or even worse she doesn’t even respond to your texts/calls and just ignore you. I had this happen to me a few times already with one girl telling me that it was because I didn’t call her the next day so she came to the conclusion that I was only into her for the sex. That was kind of true with that girl but not for a Korean American girl I recently dated and had some physical success with grabbing ass and tits and heavy make outs on our first date. Shame, because it had potential to be a nice notch.
Note: This doesn’t apply for the standard kiss on the lips or the gentleman few kisses at her front door after you drop her off from your date. Those you can wait the standard 2 or 3 days before contacting her. That’s if you only want to see her again of course 🙂
9. Don’t be to over apologetic. Ever have someone say excuse me to you because you may happen to be standing or blocking the way unintentionally and the first word that comes out of your mouth is “sorry” before you move? We all have, including me. When you come to think about it, why are you apologizing for in the first place? Your not placed purposely in his way so why do you need apologize for your existence in a public area. He doesn’t own the public area and neither do you so don’t apologize and just move out of the way. Apologizing for no reason makes you look weak, passive and beta. The worst part is subconsciously it will affect your behavior and the way you view yourself. You will start apologizing for asking questions, like “sorry to bother you, but I wanted to ask you, etc. This one might be a tough one to understand, but just think of it this way; are strong men constantly apologizing to people when they haven’t done anything wrong? Do black guys apologize to you when you say excuse me? Asian men are viewed as weak already, don’t make it worse by apologizing for everything.
10. Pacific Rim is a racist and discriminating movie. As in typical Hollywood fashion, the movie discriminates against Asian men. For those of you who’ve seen the movie, did you notice that although the movie takes place in Hong Kong (an Asian country and city) NOT one single Asian male actor even has a line or a part in saving his own people in a city being ransacked by Godzilla like creatures. The only scenes where there were Asian men were the scene where Charlie Hunnam was kicking three Asian guys asses in a stick fight and the scene where the first the robot being controlled by the Asian men pilots were the first ones killed without putting up a fight. Actually they did have a line but it wasn’t even in fucking English. So the movie really involves around White and Black men saving yellow asses in Hong Kong with the slant civilians helpless and running for their lives. The only Asian actor is an Asian woman who has an obvious attraction to the white protagonist (Charlie Hunnam) secretly watching him change while getting excited and has a silent but obvious attraction for him. The movie goes on to show a successful White man/Asian woman team up and corny somewhat romance to save the Hong Kong while there is not a single Asian man to be found anywhere. This must have been an ego trip movie for all those Asian woman, White men couples that went to watch the movie thinking they can relate to the movie portraying that WM/AW are some kind superior union that also applies in real life. More smacks in the face for Asian men were roles with Chinese characters and Chinese names were being played by Ron Perlman (white) and another Hispanic actor. Even the Black leader in the movie had more lines in Japanese then Asian men even had in English. (which were none). For those of you who hadn’t watched it; Do so only if you can handle the discrimination against Asian men in that movie. Personally, I think Asian men should boycott the movie and be vocal about the discrimination towards Asian men.
Instead of constantly pointing out discrimination by Hollywood towards Asian men lets also recognize the ones that show love for our brethren.
Glen and Maggie from the Walking Dead. They had the first AM/WW sex scene that I have ever seen on the American screen.
Sung Kang in his role as Han with his on screen Fast and Furious girlfriend. As per wikipedia Sung Kang stated as an American actor, one of his biggest dislikes about Hollywood are the stereotypes that East Asian actors face when being cast in a role. Kudos to Sung Kang who takes roles that portray Asian men in a positive light.
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